"when trust is broken it is the end of the relationship"
true? yes? no? many relationships have been broken certain reasons? you get cheated? perhaps? there's just no more spark or commitment? third party problem? as it is common..
ingredients to separation
ingredients to separation
- lack of trust leads to? suspicion
- suspicion generates anger
- anger causes enmity
- ENMITY
no pointing fingers
*we all look forward to being loved and respected. i mean. who doesnt? many people are afraid to lose face. Generally, everyone makes mistakes. When one makes mistakes, he or she will look for a scapegoat to point the finger at.. Pointing fingers would only result WAR!! we should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at us. does that make any sense? it is a fact however. *smiles* well, if we forgive others, others will tend to ignore our mistakes too.
creating perfect relationships?
*we all look forward to being loved and respected. i mean. who doesnt? many people are afraid to lose face. Generally, everyone makes mistakes. When one makes mistakes, he or she will look for a scapegoat to point the finger at.. Pointing fingers would only result WAR!! we should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at us. does that make any sense? it is a fact however. *smiles* well, if we forgive others, others will tend to ignore our mistakes too.
creating perfect relationships?
*nah... why would you call a government matchmaker to find your perfect soulmate? to have a perfect relationship it would be best that you love an imperfect person perfectly.. agree? i quote from this anonymous that a perfect match can only happen between a blind wife and a deaf husband. trying to imagine the situation here eyh? The blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. see it now? well many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and tends to dream of a perfect relationship. It is unfortunate that when the excitement wears off they wake up and discover that marriage is NOT a bed of roses.
who is better than who?
who is better than who?
*any relationship will fail if one party tries to overpower another or demand too much. Alot of people tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change their bad habits after marriage. WRONG! According to the Chinses proverbs, it is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character. Nevertheless, it is not easy to change and having high expectation on changing your spouse character will only cause dissapointment and unpleasantness.
are you patient?
*patience indeed is a must in a relationship. When you lose patience, wrong words are spoken. Hearts will be broken and it will be difficult to mend. A feeling of regret. Words cant be taken back that easily. Too often we tend to fail to recognize the differences between the person and the performance. Sometimes, or probably most of the time we tend to forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. in this world, accidents happen. mistakes happen. without mistakes how will we learn? everyone makes mistakes. you. me. us. them. yes. everyone. however, the actions that we take while we are at rage will haunt us, forever..
are you patient?
*patience indeed is a must in a relationship. When you lose patience, wrong words are spoken. Hearts will be broken and it will be difficult to mend. A feeling of regret. Words cant be taken back that easily. Too often we tend to fail to recognize the differences between the person and the performance. Sometimes, or probably most of the time we tend to forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. in this world, accidents happen. mistakes happen. without mistakes how will we learn? everyone makes mistakes. you. me. us. them. yes. everyone. however, the actions that we take while we are at rage will haunt us, forever..
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